Part 131 – Ducati – Changing My Perception – Removing the Labels!

For this post I first want to  revisit some of  Ducati’s history. 

Ducati is a registered Australian Stock Horse  and came to us before he was three.  My daughter found him at a Performance Horse sale and fell in love with him.  I thought he was way too young, but  she said she would be fine with him – and he had a lovely personality.  He was also voted the ‘star horse’ at the sale.  The owner was a nice lady and I think he was started quite well – but probably much too young .  He performed beautifully in the ring – chased the cow around – moved athletically –   his owner was a good rider and kind on his mouth – and so he came home with us.

We had a saddle fitted – Emma rode him a couple of times – and then fell off….. she was going beautifully – went into a canter – he seemed to collapse in the hind end and falter….  and that was it for her – she lost her confidence.  

Ducati was then ridden on and off by others over the next few years.  He was always a gentleman, very willing – and caught on quickly.  I rode him a few times – always feeling a bit uneasy because he was an athletic horse with quick turns …  Then several years lapsed where he wasn’t ridden at all…

Now here I was, in the arena doing the ground work with positive reinforcement.  During the ‘bitless bridle experience’ I had time to ponder.

I still felt I was missing something.  I had gone through all these steps to rectify the anxiety I had caused – but still something troubled me.  Then it came to me..

It was my perception of Ducati!!!   I saw him as a quick learner, athletic – a can-do horse – a high achiever –   I expected quick results from him, no fuss, willing to do what the others can’t/wont.

So my perception was hindering my ability to really ‘see’ him –  This is what I said to myself:

“So……I’ve never treated him like a ‘beginner’ – I expect more from him than the others.  And he delivers – – but at what cost – underlying anxiety.  Was he not given a chance to just be a baby?  …. Started as a two year old – expected  to learn the ins and outs of campdrafting.  It reminds me of a child, pressured way too young to perform – the anxiety – whether internal or obvious – takes its toll.  Peeling off that armour reveals a still young, vulnerable horse, trying desperately to please.”

How do I remedy it?  Acknowledge it first – then start to look at him through new eyes …. or a ‘new frame’……has he learnt that to be accepted he has to be perfect – but sometimes he just can’t?      I need to get through it’s okay to mess up, it’s okay just to ‘be him’.

The next day  I went to him with new eyes to see if I could meet him somewhere where we could begin this journey again …. with the skills and understanding of good clicker training  – but without my expectation.

I felt very emotional – I’d had this image in my head of what I thought about him.  My previous image had not been helpful.  So I added my new image into my relaxation work with Ducati.

Slowly we started again – my number one priority was to train with no signs of anxiety.  This was hard to do at times.  Ducati would become anxious/excited.  He would chortle away – always so excited to be training – and then I’d almost see his mind start ticking  “What’s next?  What will she ask me next?”

So I started more repetitive behaviours.  We would partially walk around the cone circle then head for the mat.   I sometimes   asked for head lowering – or I gave him a massage – then we would repeat that behaviour.  I was looking for a clean loop – and in that loop had to be a calm horse.

Now this worked sometimes – not all the time.  We then did walk and trot transitions and walking with the halter and lead rope.   Over the time I had been doing the cone circle work – and teaching him to stand square on the mat, his body changed – he was just shining!

I’ve put together a ‘before’ and ‘after’ photo.  Now to be fair – the ‘before’ is a photo from when we were coming out of winter – and it’s from around 2011 – when he was 10 – before clicker training.  The ‘after’ is the feature photo.  It’s from 2017 – when he was 16 – he was waiting for me to get organised for a training session.

before after

This was all from this very gentle cone circle and rope handling work.  He was truly blossoming.  And his eye became softer…

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All these small details made a difference….

Now it was time to reintroduce the reins and introduce the mounting block…..

COMING UP – THE DESIRE TO RIDE AGAIN

IF YOU ARE NEW TO THIS STORY, PLEASE START AT THE BEGINNING HERE – Part 1 – An Introduction

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